God is a jealous God. The Sin of Jealousy is everywhere, and as wives, we must be on guard. Jealousy is a sin.The Bible teaches, “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant” (1 Corinthians 13:4). 1. It causes people to act and speak in toxic ways. Jealousy can be a major relationship problem—a survey of marital therapists reported that romantic jealousy was a serious problem for a third of their clients. Keeping in step with the Spirit will help us to not live in our sinful nature, but rather live for Him. The second commandment explicitly says that God is a jealous God (Exodus 20:4–5; cf. Another sign of that someone might be jealous of you is when they happily give you some bad news on the pretext of doing you a favor. Jealousy is not a sin when you are jealous over something that belongs to you. Suppose you’ve decided to go to the beach, but upon sharing your plans with your jealous friend, they instantly tell you that it’s going to rain for the next few days. 34:14); yet, in Galatians Paul condemns jealousy in the same breath as idolatry (Galatians 5:19–20). We are not to serve other gods. Such emotions cause strife and division, and are contrary to the teachings of Jesus, for He taught men to love one another and live together in unity (John 15:12; 17:22; 1 John 3:23). Genesis 37:4 And when his brothers saw that their father loved him more than all his brothers, they hated him, and could not speak peaceably to him. In contrast to the sin of envy or jealousy, 1 Timothy 6:6 says that “godliness with contentment is great gain.” Envy or jealousy is the enemy of contentment because we cannot live in grateful contentment when focused on what we don’t have. Jealousy over what others have. Jealousy is not always a sin, but most of the time it is. The sin of coveting jealousy and envy in our modern age a pastor told me coveting a one of the last commandments because it is a root commandment that can lead to so many other sins and anguishes. 9. We were made for Him. Because it divides people. It progressed to hatred and—like Cain’s—it would have culminated in murder. It is not a sin to be tempted to envy, but if it is allowed to live and fester, it becomes destructive. I could think of three things that make a desire for someone’s affections sinful. Jealous people are mighty plan-spoilers. Being jealous is not always wrong because God is a jealous God (Ex 20:5) that despises worship of other gods and so Paul wrote, “I feel a divine jealousy for you, since I betrothed you to one husband, to present you as a pure virgin to Christ” (2nd Cor 11:2). He created us. Jealousy is sinful when it is for affections that don’t belong to you. The tenth commandment addresses envy and jealousy by forbidding covetousness (Exodus 20:17). 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